Returning to Life

I took a lot of time off from writing (too much time.)  At first it wasn’t really intentional.  Life was happening and it was chaotic and busy and I wasn’t checking in. I was more focused on living my life for the first time in years than I was about “documenting” and “sharing” my journey and struggles.  Then I thought, “should I even bother anymore?” Which turned into “I’ll do an update 9 months after my discharge date from St. Georg.”  Now here I am almost 10 months later and finally getting to it.  I feel compelled to share what’s been going on and what I’ve done and hopefully it will reach someone whom it may help.

My life has changed so dramatically since I walked into Klink St. Georg on January 2, 2019.  I am still not fully healed but I am healing.  My health has improved so much.  No more passing out.  No more stopping breathing.  My heart hasn’t stopped beating.  My pain is minimal for the most part.  I’m thinking more clearly. I’m not trapped in bed for days and weeks.  I’m starting to feel like me again.  The path to recovery hasn’t been easy, but it has been worth it. I’m grateful everyday for my life, to wake up breathing and in an overall good place.

In the last 9 months so much has happened.  Here’s the short version: my husband had another neck reconstruction, he fought and survived osteomyelitis in his cervical spine (almost killed him); I had a miscarriage; my husband relapsed and went to inpatient treatment; I tapped into my spirituality, took some classes and discovered my own gifts; my husband had hernia surgery; I started seeing a Psychiatrist again (I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder – which makes so much sense to me after learning about it); I had my own neck surgery (triple level fusion); and turned a year older.

I was doing so well after the Klinik.  When I came home I was fully dedicated to my recovery and nothing else was more important until my husband’s life was on the line.  Being the kind of person I am, I became more concerned about his well being than my own (old habits die hard.)  I started letting my own recovery be compromised.  I wasn’t eating well, I was spending long hours and sometimes nights at the hospital.  My health started to slip.  I was frustrated.  I was angry that I didn’t get the time I needed to devote to my own health and recovery.  But’s that’s life.  Things happened beyond my control and I did the best I could at the time.  Without my treatment at the Klinik I would have never been able to do be there for the things that happened.  Before it would have killed me with all certainty.

In May I was introduced to the Medical Medium Anthony William.  It’s funny how people/things appear just when you need them.  (You can say God or Spirit or Life or Karma or whatever belief you subscribe to does this.)  I have always been a firm believer in the healing powers of food.  This is has been tested and proven to me on multiple occasions, not just for myself but many others I know as well.  So when I heard about Anthony William, I thought I would look into it and see what he was about.  I am beyond grateful that I did.

I devoured Anthony William’s first book “The Medical Medium”  and I told everyone I talked to about it.  I started drinking celery juice (16 ounces) every morning on an empty stomach.  Let me say, I HATE CELERY! So the idea of drinking straight celery juice first thing in the morning was gross and disgusting to me.  But I thought, “don’t knock it until you try it.” In just a few days I was already seeing major changes for me.  I got my mom on the juice train too.  I would get up at 5:30 every morning to make juice for her and I so she could get it on her way to work in the morning. (I ended up getting a slow masticating juicer and gave my mom my first juicer.)  Then I got my husband on board after a dare. We all started noticing a lot of positive changes.  My mom liked it right off the bat (she also likes celery) but my husband was like me, he hated the taste.  It took a little while to get used to.  In the beginning both my husband and I would just chug it to get it done and over with, we both looked at it as medicine.  Both of us are still juicing 5 months later.  If we skip a day, we just don’t feel as good.  My husband quit drinking coffee for a while.  He was someone who could drink 2 pots a day and never think twice about it.  He said, that having celery juice in the morning just made him feel better.  Even now that he has started drinking coffee again, it’s rare and he can only handle one cup (2 at max.)

Seeing the wonderful benefits of celery juice wasn’t enough for me.  I thought “if just doing juice makes me feel this good, let’s try the rest of his advice.” I haven’t done everything, but I’ve done a lot.  I juice daily.  Celery juice is a must.  I combined the liver rescue smoothie and the heavy metal detox smoothie and love it! I’ve changed my diet to mostly plant based.  I still enjoy animal products once in a while, but it’s a treat, not the norm anymore and I am more aware now than ever of where it comes from.  I used to eat butter like it was going out of style (I enjoyed chunks of straight butter.) I haven’t bought butter in over 2 months.

I didn’t make the out right choice to become plant based, I just started incorporating more fresh fruits and veggies and my tastes began to change with that.  I noticed that when I didn’t eat “well” I didn’t feel “well”. If I wasn’t eating healthy my body started to feel deprived of nutrients and that’s when I became hungry and started mindlessly eating to try to satiate that “need”.

I started adding supplements back in, again largely based on the Medical Medium’s recommendations.  They worked better than anything I had every tried.

Now, for the pill that was really hard to swallow for me.  Anthony William says that Lyme (what we call Lyme) is viral and not bacterial as we’ve all been told.  It’s Esptein-Barr or Shingles or Herpes or a combination as well as toxins.  (For a more in depth explantation see the book “The Medical Medium” by Anthony William.)

As someone who has suffered with Lyme, Bartonella, Babesia and mycoplasma; someone who put myself through hell and back with nightmarish treatments; someone who tried so much just to get well and be healthy.  I’ll admit I had a hard time believing that he could be right about it.  How could the medical community be so wrong? How could we have been lied to about something so major?  Antibiotics not working and doing more harm than good? It took me a long time to really believe that Anthony William might be right.

I took a long hard look at all the treatments that I had been through and how long I had been sick and how much I lost from being sick and all that I had done in the hopes of being well one day.  What’s my verdict? Well for now, based on trying all the things I have, I believe him.  Before anyone gets upset and stops reading, just hear me out.

I believe that my Lyme doctor saved my life with the treatment I started there. I am incredibly thankful for all my Lyme doctor did for me.  I still believe he was my best option in the U.S.  I was so sick that I needed rapid intervention and treatment.  I did see progress when I was with him and I did get better than I was.  Then I started to regress a lot which quickly which leads me to…

Going to Klink St George was my next step and ramped up my treatment as well as my success.  I got so much better than I had been, and in a very short period of time.  I believe I was successful in my treatment there and do not regret it at all.  I was at my lowest point when I started treatment there.  I think Germany was really important to my recovery.  I am beyond blessed to have had the opportunity to go there.  The hyperthermia did kill a lot of things.  I was clean eating and gluten free while I was there and I didn’t have to worry about food since everything was taken care of for me.  Chelation and plasmapheresis did wonders for me! They made me feel amazing and were my favorite treatments.  Doing IV vitamins and antibiotics was great. The Klinik was a fantastic, well rounded treatment. I wish I had found them sooner.  The treatment there was more inclusive and extensive than anything you can find here in the United States.

But finding the Medical Medium was my next step.  I went Paleo in 2014 after I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis and the meds were just making me sicker and sicker.  I did it to try to heal myself.  It was my first real attempt at healing myself with food. It was incredible for me.  I now know that I never had MS! For years I believed in Paleo based on my personal success with it.  I learned quickly that when I was eating right my health was better. But going mostly plant based has been key for me.

Like most things in life, we learn through trial and error.  We continue to evolve and learn and grow.  We are introduced to new things, new tools and information that help us in the transformation process.  This is why, as a community, we HAVE to talk to each other and share.  What’s right for one, may or may not work for another.  But food is key! Food is the one thing throughout all of my health struggles that has been and remains the absolute most critical part of health, treatment and wellness. It is the basis for any and all success that I have had.  Food is the fuel for our bodies to go through life.  You wouldn’t put corn syrup in your car and expect to get very far.

I am by NO means perfect with my food.  I still “cheat” if you will but it’s my treat to myself.  I haven’t given up everything that I used to eat all the time. Oddly enough, when I do treat myself to things that I don’t normally eat, I more often than not find that I don’t like the stuff I used to love.  The memory of it is better than the reality of it now.  I know that if I do treat myself I may end up paying for it.  I have made decisions to eliminate certain things from my diet but they may not be forever.  I cut things out so that I can create the right environment for my body to heal itself.  I’m rebuilding myself from the inside out.

I still have far to go.  After decades of the wrong stuff my body was in horrendous shape.  When I was thin I wasn’t healthy, I just looked it.  Add in some makeup and I actually looked like a normal person.  When I stopped the antibiotics and was in bed for months on end, I gained weight and a lot of it.  It was incredibly hard for me.  In my late teens, I struggled with bulimia and was laxative junkie.  I felt the need to fit in and have the perfect body.  Gaining all the weight remains a massive struggle for me.  There are days that I am frustrated, days where I can’t stand to look at myself and cry from the weight.  There are days where I want to restrict, starve myself or purge whatever I consume. I don’t though.  I have lost weight, albeit not nearly as much as I want.  I wish it was coming off faster but I didn’t put it on overnight and it’s not going to come off overnight.  I remind myself that this time, I’m doing it the right way and that’s a process.  I tell myself I am still healing because I really am.  I’m not just healing from sickness and disease but I am healing from the damage of the treatments that I have been through.

I can look back at all I’ve been through and the first thing that comes to mind is that I am a warrior.  I am a survivor.  Each step in my journey has brought me to where I am now.  My health is vastly improving.  My marriage is healing and is in a good place right now.  I’m connected to people in a way I never have been.  My faith and spirituality are stronger and more deeply rooted than ever.

Will I be sick forever? No.  I don’t for one minute believe that I will.  I have been sick for a long time and recovery takes a long time but it is worth it.  As for my journey there is not a single part of it that I would change because again it’s brought me to where I am at this very moment.  If someone else was going through what I went through, my hope has always been that my journey could some how help them to navigate their journey more easily.  I can say that had I done this or that sooner or known what I know now I could have saved myself a lot of pain and suffering but this is the hand that I’ve been dealt in life.  Do I think that I could have healed myself completely through food? No.  Surgeries were needed and by the time that I found out exactly what was wrong with me, I was in crisis mode.  I needed medicine to keep me alive.  Had I known about food and the true extent of its  healing powers a decade ago, I absolutely believe that most of what I’ve gone through (physical trauma excluded) I could have healed myself from.  Had I truly known the importance of food (specifically the right food) my treatments would have been much more successful.

While I believe food is probably the most integral part of my healing it is not the only aspect of it.  I needed to heal my mind and my soul as well as my body.  Events from my past were keeping me sick as much as the physical disease. I feel like I’m getting a handle on things and working on obtaining balance and finding happiness and coming to a place of peace.  I’m not there yet, but I’m on my way.

This is my life, my journey.  It will never be finished, not until I’m dead and gone and even then I hope that I will have given to the world something that will continue even if my name is forgotten.  I continue to set new goals for myself, to find new aspirations, and dream bigger.  I strive each day to be a better person.  I’m not even close to perfect.  I have let friendships fade that I miss.  I got lost in my own sorrows and struggles and have nearly drowned in a pool of self pity. I haven’t been “present” for others when I should have been.  There are times I feel great shame for my shortcomings.  I feel we often need to lose ourselves before we can really find ourselves and know who we really are.  For me this has been the case.  I had to fall apart to rebuild myself.  After all that I have been through, not just my disease, but in life, for the first time I feel like I’m truly on the path that is right for me to become my best and healthiest self.

 

 

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Road to Recovery

It has been exactly 4 weeks today since I left the place that changed my life; 4 weeks ago I walked out of Klinik St. Georg in Bad Aibling, Germany, a person with a new hope for life and healthier than I had been in over a decade.

The journey to the Klinik started six months before I checked in on January 2nd, 2019. It was a process my husband began for me.  After hearing about the Klinik from a family friend, my husband began researching it and trying to find a way to get me there.  It wasn’t until September that I was actually told about going to the Klinik.  By that time my health was deteriorating rapidly. My Lyme doctor in the U.S. was ready to put me back on a port.  After hearing about the Klinik and learning about them through my own research (I know I wasn’t comprehending more than a quarter of what I was reading) I decided to put my faith in them.  I put off having a port and thus any further treatment in the U.S.  I had already been off of antibiotics since the beginning of July because my stomach and body was so worn out and beaten up that I wasn’t able to absorb treatment.  It was risky for me to take the chance of going off antibiotics that long but I just had faith that I would get to the Klinik and that was really my last hope at getting significantly better.

We got the paperwork in October to fill out.  Due to my declining health it took me a long time to be able to fill it out, even with the help of my husband and my mother.  I had to sift through years of medical records to find some of the information that I needed, after all I had been sick for almost two decades.  I was the one that knew what to look for and the one who had to find the information.  Finally by the beginning of November I had completed all the necessary information and returned the information to the Klinik.  It then became a matter of waiting.  What I thought would take weeks, took days.  I had a date set, January 2, 2019.  My in-laws gifted me treatment at the Klinik.  It was the best present I have ever received or could have ever asked for.  I will always be eternally grateful to them.

The months leading up to treatment were some of the worst of my life.  I was getting sicker daily.  My heart was stopping and I was having to be revived by my husband.  I was in the hospital.  I had a massive herpes outbreak (the first one of my life) which taxed my weakened immune system even more.  I was living moment to moment, never knowing when my last breath would come, when my heart would take its last beat.  I was so depressed and I was so sick that I welcomed death.  I was making my peace.  I was trying to hold on long enough to get to treatment in Germany and I saw it as my last chance at living. I was barely able to pull myself together in front of anyone other than my husband and my mom, to seem functional.  It wasn’t until I came home from treatment that my mom confessed to me that she spent so much time crying and telling my aunt that she didn’t know how much time she was going to have left with her daughter.

I wasn’t sure that I was going to even be able to make the trip to Germany, let alone make it through treatment but I did.

We left the U.S. on New Year’s Eve.  The airport was empty.  Most people would rather be out celebrating than flying on that night.  Once we got through security, we sat in the lounge.  We had sat by the window and I remember looking out and the first plane I saw was “Aer Lingus” which is Ireland’s airline.  It made me think of my trip to Ireland and how inspiring that had been.  I saw it as a good sign of things to come. I posted on Facebook:

“This year I received the best Christmas present I could ask for (not to mention my family.) My in-laws are paying for me to go to Germany for the top of the line Lyme treatment. As I write this, I’m sitting in the Admiral’s Lounge staring out at the planes departing.  It’s New Year’s Eve and While everyone else is out partying, I’m already celebrating.  This is my chance to come back radically better and to begin a new life, healthier that I have been in many, many years.  So 2019 starts with 3 weeks in patient in a hospital, with my first wedding anniversary (in the hospital but celebrating in Munich after discharge.) I want to than all those that have been there for me, supported me, prayed for me and have understood my inability to be the friend I once was and will be soon again.  Mostly I want to thank my amazing husband for putting this together for e and my family for their unconditional love and support for without the I would never had made it this far and none of this would be possible.  See you all when I get back, hopefully much healthier and happier and thinner! Happy New Year’s everyone and be safe!”

The third comment I received on the post said “This is the best “new year, new me” post I’ve seen!! Good luck to you and your family.” It was my new year and it would truly prove to be a new me.

Treatment was easier than I had expected.  Most other people said how hard it was but I guess being that I had been through such harsh and hard treatment in the U.S. it seemed much easier to me.  I was used to IV’s and a central line and antibiotics.  Even hyperthermia was easier than I expected.  Maybe I was just lucky.  I don’t know but either way I was glad for it.  The worst thing for me was colon hydrotherapy.  I had not been looking forward to that at all.  The first one was horrific for me.  It was so painful.  I swelled up and felt like my insides were going to explode.  I know that I was tense despite me trying not to be.  Others did not have anything similar to my experience (at least those that I spoke with at the Klinik.) My second round with it was much easier and not painful at all.  I guess that with years of stomach issues and so many medications I was really backed up and that was the reason for my awful first experience.

My third week of treatment was solely based on repair,  injections, plasmapharesis, I-therm, chelation and the list goes on. It was a week to really detox my system and repair it on a cellular level. It was such a great experience. The plasmapharesis made me feel incredible! I slept through most of it and I felt so amazing when it was done.  They got over 2 pounds of toxins out of my blood and body!

Leaving the Klinik, I couldn’t believe how good I felt.  My mind was clearer.  My pain was minimal. My fatigue was greatly improved.  I came out better than I could have ever even dreamed.

The treatment I received at the Klinik was nothing short of a miracle for me! The staff was amazing and so wonderful.  Everyone there wants to be there to help people.  I have never had such an experience in the U.S. and doubt I ever will.

The day we left the Klinik, we headed to Munich.  My husband and I were staying the night there before flying out the next morning for the U.S. and we were also celebrating our first anniversary.  We went to the city center. (For those of you who have never been, you can only get to the outskirts of the city center because there are no roads in the city center, so it is all walking.) I walked and walked and yes, ultimately I overdid it.  I paid the price that night because by the time we got back to the hotel (3.5 hours later) I could barely walk because my feet hurt so bad.  Instead of going out for dinner we ended ordering room service (which was so delicious), relaxing in bed and finishing up packing for the flight the next morning. While my feet hurt so bad, I couldn’t even see straight, I looked at my Apple Watch and we had walked over 2.5 miles.  I had run up the stairs at the Klinik before I left. These things were unbelievable to me.  I could barely walk when I arrived at the Klinik.  I couldn’t even walk a single flight of stairs.  I had trouble walking 10 feet.  And now I was able to walk over 2.5 miles in just 3 weeks of treatment?!

I had been worried about coming home.  I was thriving in the Klinik.  I was comfortable and being taken care of and I knew I was safe.  How was I going to do once I got home? I had after care/at home treatment to do.  Was I going to be able to do it myself? Would I crash and relapse? I was in unknown territory again and I was actually scared to come home.

The day after we got home, I slept.  All. Day. I let my body rest.  I knew that a major pitfall for people after treatment is that they feel better and think they can do so much but they actually end up burning out and slowing recovery and healing.  The next couple of days I fell into that too.  I came home to a house that didn’t seem like mine anymore, a house that was cluttered and not immaculate and I wanted to change all of that immediately.  I started decluttering and straightening and despite my best efforts to pace myself and take breaks I over did it.  I didn’t feel it for about a week and then I realized my body was catching up to me and I needed to rest.  I had to put the brakes on hard and force myself to stop.  I needed bed rest and recuperation but I was terrified of being back in bed again and getting stuck there.  Years of living with Lyme had confined me to bed and I was desperate not to end up back in that place.  It took a major mental adjustment.

When you are sick for years and years on end it does psychological damage.  It changes your brain.  You have to learn to adapt to what your new “normal” is.  I spent years never knowing when a “good” day would come and when it did I knew I needed to pack as much into that “good” day as possible because I wasn’t sure when I’d have another one and I knew that I would be in terrible pain the next day anyway.  Coming home I’ve had to learn how to shift that mentality again.  A little at a time.  Good days come more often than not and as long as I pace myself I can get there.  I’m still working on this.  I am trying to listen to my body and rest when I need to and try not to see it as a sign of regression.

Beside my Lyme being treated at the Klinik I also discovered a host of other problems that had not been addressed in the U.S.  First of all was my heavy metals.  I was literally at toxic levels with a multitude of metals.  I received Chelation and that was treated and helped tremendously.  I’ve got to be very careful with everything I put in my body now.  Everything has to be organic and heavy metal free and natural.  While the Klinik only said no gluten and no sugar, I have gone back to being strict Paleo again because that has done such wonders for me in the past (so no gluten, no dairy, no soy, no sugar.)  Going to the grocery store is a nightmare now.  I have to read every ingredient on everything I buy and look at where my food is coming from and its expensive.  I have to be very careful with any type of medication I take.  I’m working with my primary to come off as many prescription medications as I can so that I don’t continue to poison myself with pharmaceuticals. Food has become my medicine again but more intensely than ever before.

I also found out that I have a severe hormonal imbalance.  Lyme can screw with your hormones and throw them out of whack.  The fact that I was on birth control for so long (almost 15 years) also complicated my hormones.  The Klinik sent me home with a protocol to correct my hormonal imbalances and I’m already seeing a major improvement with that.  In 2 more months, I will be more fertile than I was at 16 and will be able to start trying for baby and will be healthy enough to not only conceive a child but actually carry a child to full term and I don’t have to worry about transmitting Lyme to a child because I’m in remission.  No fear of breast feeding either.  Dr. Douwes is so sure of this he told me to write him when I am pregnant and send pictures when the baby is born.

Finally, I got the correct testing done on my thyroid.  I was diagnosed with very severe hypothyroidism. I was put on a combination of supplements to correct that.  One of the supplements is available by prescription in the United States and the head doctor at the Klinik, Dr. Douwes said that the medication in U.S. is one of the only medications that is better here than in Europe. Since going on the medications for my hypothyroidism, I’ve lost 30 pounds and my energy is improving.  It’s definitely working for sure! All the weight that I gained from being in bed is literally falling off.  Dr. Douwes promised I would see a change and that I would continue to lose weight and be able to get back down to my goal weight in about 6 months.

I haven’t had any signs or symptoms of my coinfections (Babesia, Bartonella or Mycoplasma) since my second hyperthermia treatment.  The Klinik does NOT treat or cure coinfections.  They do say that because your immune system is reactivated and boosted it CAN help you fight the infections on your own.  I believe that since my coinfections were targeted and treated so heavily before treatment that after treatment my body was able to fight what was left in my body.  I’m still keeping an eye on them and if needed, I will get treatment for them again.  But so far so good.

I’m still doing treatment at home.  I have tons of supplements and my body is still healing.  I still have a long way to go.  Lyme wrecked havoc on my body and it will take time to recover from all of that.  The hyperthermia is still working.  They say it can take up to 12 weeks for hyperthermia to still be working in your body.  My mind is still healing but I’m able to think again.  I can talk without pausing or losing my train of thought.  When we first got home, my husband kept telling me I was talking too much but I was finally able to say things I couldn’t get out before.  The psychological effects of being sick for so long will take even more time.  I am not cured but I am in remission.

So did it work? Do I think it was all worth it? ABSOLUTELY, WITHOUT A DOUBT! I still believe that my Lyme doctor in the U.S. saved my life. Without treatment here, I would be dead.  They treated me coinfections and kept the Lyme from getting worse.  But Klinik St. Georg was where I needed to be to truly get better.  I wish I had know about them sooner.  The cost is expensive but minor compared to what I have spent just in the last six years here.  I would tell anyone with Lyme and/or cancer to go there immediately.  Don’t trust medicine in the U.S. I met people from all over the world at the Klinik with similar stories.  One woman’s daughter had even been seeing the same Lyme specialist I did in the U.S. with the same story.

One thing that I attribute my great success to is the fact that I finally “let go” of control while I was at the Klinik.  From the moment I walked through the doors, I decided to let go of whatever I thought I knew about Lyme and treatment.  I surrendered completely to God and turned myself and my life over to him.  I trusted in the Klinik and their program and what they have proven to work.  I never questioned anything (well other than what something was or how it worked.) I completely trusted.  I let myself be taken care of, I asked for help when I needed it, I let myself and my body focus on healing and believing that it would work.  I celebrated every single small improvement I had.  I went in with and maintained a positive attitude throughout the entire process.  This, I think, is key in treatment.

I still have aftercare and healing to do but I’m adjusting to my new “normal” and I’m appreciating every day.  I finally feel like I have the opportunity to have a life again and to actually be able to live again!

 

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Something BIG and Something NEW

I haven’t written in so long.  I considered never writing again.  I was tired, sick, worn down and didn’t really have anything new to say.  I was doing was the same old thing, day in and day out, getting sicker with every passing day. Barely functioning and needing assistance with basic daily living, I just couldn’t pull myself out of the hole I was living in.  So why start writing again? Because something BIG is happening! Something I hope that will be a complete game changer in my fight against Lyme and my co-infections. Something that I want to be able to document and remember.

I have been accepted at a world-renowned treatment center in Germany  (St. Georg Klinik) AND I am being gifted the cost of treatment! One month from today I will be boarding a plane to Germany (just outside of Munich) to start a 22 day inpatient stay at a hospital that ONLY treats Lyme and cancer.  My husband (who happens to speak fluent German, as that is where he grew up) is going with me and will be receiving exposure treatment since Lyme is proven to be sexually transmitted.  His treatment will be 3 days.  We have been working on this for months and it has finally come to fruition.

So what is so special that I would travel so far and be in a hospital that long? I will be receiving treatment that is both medical and holistic and dietary, some of which is not approved in the United States, although used in other countries.  It’s the whole picture being treated at once.  The biggest thing that they are known for is systemic whole body hyperthermia in which they put you under general anesthesia and raise your body temperature to 106.7 degrees Fahrenheit for several hours to basically “bake” or “fry” the spirochetes to death, followed by intensive detoxification. I will receive 2 of these treatments (along with other therapies) and my husband will receive 1 of the treatments during his 3 day treatment.

Some of the other therapies that are part of my treatment plan (more may be added when I arrive and further evaluation and testing is completed) are as follows: dark field blood analysis; Bioscan; oral hygiene set; infusions; Ozone therapy; andulation bed and singulet oxygen therapy; laser therapy; blue light; magnetic field treatment; detox foot bath; enemas; colon hydro therapy; skeletal program; physical therapy (lymph drainage, feet reflexology, Reiki, massage) and a detoxification program.  Because of how severe my case is and how sick I currently am, the klinik has recommended an additional week at their facility to help me detox better and speed my recovery. During that week, I will continue my detox program but several things will be added: plasmapheresis, immune modulation therapy with biopeptides, mitochondrial support and I-therm.

Following treatment at the klinik, I will be sent home with follow-up care and a 6 week basic oral supplementation package to take home (other supplements may be added as needed.)  I will continue certain parts of treatment when I return home.  It will take 4-8 weeks for me to fully experience the full results of the hyperthermia.

For those wondering why I would do all of this to myself the answer is simple: because I want to live again – I want to have a life and feel better.  My body has been wrecked by years of antibiotics and I need to be healed.  I have been off of antibiotics since the beginning of July.  My body is not fully absorbing the medications and supplements that I am on.  I’ve had to increase my dosages to just get what is therapeutic for me.  My only other option here would be to go back on a port and do IV antibiotics again to get the right amount of medication into my system.  I went through so much hell with treatment through a port before that I am not eager to go back to it.  Its debilitating and I cannot be left alone for at least the first 3 months with the port in.  I can’t drive with the port in.  And there’s an extremely high possibility of me having to learn how to speak, read, write, move, etc. all over again.  I could pump my body full of more and more medications with little improvement.  I’m choosing a different path, a new path and hopefully a more successful one.

While the klinik has a 98% success rate, it is by no means a cure.  As of now with medicine, Lyme remains incurable after 18 months.  Being that I have had Lyme for nearly 19 years, I am passed the point of being cured.  Will I need antibiotics again? It’s possible.  Will I need treatment in any form again? Yes, it’s possible.  But if I can get well enough and learn different techniques for maintaining optimal health with a chronic disease, then I will be able to hopefully cut off a major relapse again.  I will be able to get treatment, should I need it, at a much earlier point.

This treatment has given me a renewed sense of hope.  Hope that I can not be bed bound for weeks or months at a time.  Hope that I can stop being hospitalized.  Hope that I can lead a life worth living again.  Hope for having children and to be the best wife/mother/daughter/friend/person I can possibly be.  While Lyme can be passed from mother to baby via the placenta, if my spirochete load is down and my symptoms are under control (in remission,) I will be able to go on a protocol by my current Lyme doctor that reduces the risk of transmission to less that 3%.  I would be able to carry a child of my own.  And should I choose not to carry a baby, I will still be able to BE a mother through adoption or a surrogate. My only undying dream in life has been to be a wife and mother.  I got married and now the possibility of being a mother again is within reach-that alone would be worth any hell I have to endure to be able to a mother who can take care of her children and be active in their lives and not be absent due to this disease.

Please understand that I still think my current Lyme doctors are phenomenal! They saved my life.  I have been a very challenging and exceptional case (per my doctors).  I have had many abnormal things happen and many, many complications, mostly due to my Lyme going untreated and misdiagnosed for so long.  I highly recommend my Lyme doctors! However, the United States remains so far behind so many other countries, not only in treatment of the disease, but the acknowledgement of the severity of Lyme, Chronic Lyme and neuro-borreliosis. (This year the United States voted NOT to approved treatment codes that are accepted by the WHO (World Health Organization) and they cannot be voted on again for the next 5 years.  That’s 5 more years that the government can deny and 5 more years that hundreds of thousands will suffer and not be able to afford treatment, and 5 more years that insurance will NOT have to cover Lyme treatment.)  The United States targets Lyme doctors because the CDC (Center for Disease Control) and NIH (National Institute of Health) do not acknowledge or accept the undeniable proof that treating outside of their “guidelines” is effective. As of this writing, most Lyme doctors do not take insurance or are not covered by insurance, to protect themselves from the government.  Simply put, I cannot get the treatment here that I can receive in Germany because it is not available in this country.

I have hope again.  Real hope is something that I have not had in years.  Its been something that I’ve had to convince myself still exists.  With Lyme, treatment can be (and often is) horrendous.  It’s mentally, physically and emotionally brutal.  I have sworn, since the very beginning, that this disease will not take me without a fight.  I have wavered over the last several months, at times begging my family to just let me let go, but I’ve held on.  This treatment is a new chance for me.  I keep counting the days and they can’t go by fast enough.

I know that there are people who are skeptical.  People who doubt.  People who think I’m just grasping at straws.  But when you are sick, when you are just existing and not living and in pain and suffering everyday, all day, you do what you can.  You research.  You ask. You talk to others.  You do whatever you have to do to get better and improve your quality of life. Why do so many terminal patients try experimental treatments when all other conventional means are exhausted?-because they want to live and so do I.  I’m fighting with every ounce of me that I can. I am EXTREMELY FORTUNATE to have been given this opportunity! I do not deny that at all.  I am blessed to have the love and support of my family and my friends-without them I would never have made it to this point and I wouldn’t be able to make it to treatment without being taken care until I leave. Thank you to my team for all your love and support! I’m going to make you all proud and show you that I take nothing for granted and make the most out of this opportunity! Love you all!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Woman Down

It’s a beautiful fall day outside.  I can hear the children laughing and playing.  I’m confined to bed today.  I am in excruciating physical pain and emotionally I am a disaster.  My life has spun completely out of control and I’m trying to regain some sense of normalcy and indepenence.  I came to the realization yesterday that I can no longer do that on my own in any sense.

For almost a year now I have been sliding further and further into the worst depression of my life.  I’ve spent months in bed too tired to get up and wondering what’s the point if I do.  I have missed out on life.  I’ve had no pleasure.  Even planning my wedding has given me no joy, except to know that I will end up marrying the love of my life on that day.  I’ve worried my family sick.  Lost who I was.  I had to turn my finances and getting my meds over to my mom because I could not longer handle the stress of all it.  My demons have gotten the better of me.

In the last 2 months I have been to the hospital 4 times by ambulance.  First it was for passing out, which turned out to be genetic (and added more pills to my daily regimen, as if I didn’t have enough already.) I went into respiratory arrest one time because of it.  I found out that I have multiple ovarian cysts, with one being ruptured. Then I was dosing and some how caught pneumonia (probably from being in the hospital so much.)  For the past couple of weeks I have had catatonic periods where I simply cannot move.  My eyes are apparently semi open but I am completely unresponsive.  It happens when I get emotional.  I have been crying almost non stop.  I think I’ve cried more in the last couple of weeks than I have in my entire life.

My mom made the decision to take me to my primary care’s office.  Keep in mind that until yesterday I had not driven in nearly 2 months.  My primary recommended that I get my psychiatric meds checked and referred me out.  Yesterday I saw the doctor. He said that I was on too many meds, including too many antipsychotics, psychotropics and benzodiazepines. All of them had been prescribed by my Lyme doctor for various symptoms that the Lyme has caused.  He stated the meds he wanted me off of right away and wants me off the benzos completely.  He wanted me to stop one benzo immediately and they would work on tapering me off of the other.  I wasn’t a fan of the doctor at all but figured he knew best and planned on complying.  He kept asking me how much and how often I did “pot.”  I explained to him that I was on Marinol which is concentrated THC and was prescribed to me for pain control. The response I got was “Pot is pot, I don’t care how you put it. So how much do you use it?” I was so pissed off. (There was some excitement when the staff caught another patient listening outside the room I was in and the girl went crazy and had to escorted out.)

The psychiatrist barely looked at all the paperwork I had filled out.  Pretty much all he told me was that I was on too many medications and I had endured a lot in my life.  (No shit, really?!) I wanted him to ask me more so that he could find the right medications for me, but alas he did not.

I made the decision last night that I need to go to a dual diagnosis rehabilitation/detoxification center.  I can’t handle benzo withdraw at home by myself.  I never thought I’d be the one to go to rehab/detox.  If I go the way of the psychiatrist I will be detoxing for months on end and still be really sick.  That I can not handle.  Being sicker than I already am? Are you kidding me? I can’t do drawn out detox along with treatment for my Lyme, Bartonella and Babesia and depression.  I’ll end up dead.  There was time only a few weeks ago that I was convinced I was going to die because of my disease.  I won’t be able to handle what is coming, it will kill me and I don’t have the strength to do all of that at once.

There is another factor to throw into the mix, my eating disorder.  I was a laxative junkie, anorexic and bulimic in high school.  I spent a lot of time in therapy over the past decade getting it under control and even though I still have body image distortion/issues, my food had not been a problem.  My weight has fluctuated up and down over the years but I was able to handle things and keep them in check.  But over the last several months my eating disorder has become a major problem.  I don’t eat all day and binge out at night.  Because of the stress I have been under I have had a lot of stomach issues including vomiting and diarrhea, both of which I have welcomed.  The vomiting has triggered that part of my brain that tells me its a “good” thing versus being a bad thing and a sign of how sick I have been.  It’s now completely out of control and I can’t get it in check.  Add my stress, my diseases, and now detox and I’m at the end of my rope.  I don’t know how much more I can take. I want to have hope and feel like things will get better but that light is growing dimmer by the day.

I decided that rehab is the best place I can be.  I can safely detox from the benzos. Yes, I know how sick I will be, but I will have medical staff to safely monitor me and put me on antiseizure meds to make sure that I don’t have a seizure(s) while detoxing.  I would have the counselors and psychiatrists on staff to help with my stress and eating disorder and I would safely be able to stay on my protocol for dosing for my Lyme and coinfections.  I was up late last night researching facilities and up early this morning calling places to find a place that accepts both women and my insurance.  I have Medicare because I am on disability and Carefirst Blue Cross and Blue Shield as a secondary insurance, which makes me have to stay in state and is a complete joke.  Not only have they not paid a cent for any of my Lyme treatment but now they won’t pay for rehab.  Most places do not accept Medicare and cannot/will not use BCBS as my primary insurance.  I do have people who are helping me and looking at options and scholarships or “gifting.”  I have no idea how soon or if I will be able to get into a program.  I’m a complicated case that some facilities are just not willing to take on.

I’m scared out of my mind.  I didn’t do anything wrong and now I’m addicted to prescribed medications that I have to get off of.  I will have nothing for my anxiety or PTSD.  The flashbacks and nightmares will be stronger than ever and I will barely be able to leave my house if I don’t get help as soon as possible. My sleep is going to be non existent, which my body needs to get better.   I just can’t spend months upon months living like this.  I just hope something comes through soon, so I can do this and get better.  I want to have a life worth living again.

I managed to sleep for a few hours today out of sheer exhaustion from all of this and from my physical pain but other than that I have been consistently crying.  I needed to write today.  Its been a while since I last posted anything.  I debated about posting this.  It’s an insight into very personal issues, some of which not even my family knows about and will be shocked to find out.  But I want other people to know, so hopefully my struggle, my pain will help them see the light. If I can face my fears (including going to detox) then maybe it will give someone else the strength to do the same.

 

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Sweating It Out

Its a sweltering hot day.  Its a dosing day.  And I had to leave the house for a prescheduled oil change on my car.  I’m sitting in the waiting area and still sweating.  Summer months tend to be the hardest on me. The heat is so horrible.  I can’t regulate my own body temperature and with my Lyme carditis my heart starts palpitating and fluttering and makes me very dizzy and lightheaded.  I’m constantly drinking water, though I still feel dehydrated.  While everyone else is out enjoying summertime activities I’m confined to air conditioned rooms or bed.  (This is why I chose to get married in January in the middle of winter so I won’t overheat, even honeymooning in Paris in the winter for the same reason.)

To top things off I decided to wean myself off of my Nucynta (for pain) so I’m suffering slight withdrawal symptoms (upset stomach, bowl problems, insomnia, sweating (more than normal), anxiety, etc.) I was up last night at 120am after only 4 hours of sleep due to the insomnia. My fiancé got up with me and despite having to work today at 1pm he stayed up with me until 830 this morning when I was finally able to go back to sleep.  He took great care of me and didn’t complain once.  I told him to go to sleep but he wouldn’t until I was doing better.

So why am I torturing myself with withdrawal? Well first of all my refill scripts have been lost and my doctor won’t rewrite them.  I don’t know if my fiancé accidentally threw them away or with my Lyme brain I did, but they are nowhere to be found inside my house.  Secondly, I really don’t think that I need them anymore.  Here’s why…

As most of you know I have been fighting Lyme and confections with treatment for the the last 4 plus years.  I was misdiagnosed for 13 years prior to that, suffering with no answers.  I have been through the ringer with treatment.  I’ve tried holistic and natural supplements and nothing has been working to the point where I felt like I was in healing in a very long time. I previously tried a supplement regimen that was making me feel better but I wasn’t getting better.  I was still having stamina issues, pain issues, herxing and the list goes on, but at least I felt better. 

I have been struggling for the last 6 out of 7 months with very severe depression.  My pain had continued to get worse.  I was falling farther and farther down the rabbit hole.  I have also been struggling with what to do in my life as far as treatment goes.  Do I give up? Do I stop antibiotics? Do I try holistic again? “What to do?” became the dominating question that was haunting me every day.  My doctor told me, at the end of May, to take 4-6 weeks off of dosing and let my body heal some.  I decided that in that in that timeframe I was going to do whatever I could to get better without antibiotics, I was throwing my own personal “book “at these things that live inside of me. 

First thing was first, I did a cleanse which helped a little.  Secondly, I got a new tattoo.  Every time I have gotten tattooed, I always have an upswing afterwards and start doing better.  I was trying really to hard to eat better and lose some weight.  I was feeling better.  But then I got a surprise.  A friend of mine introduced me to a new regimen of supplements and products.  I was extremely skeptical.  Last time I tried a new product I did start feeling better but I knew I wasn’t getting better inside. But hell, I was grasping at straws and was willing to try anything that “might” make me better.  That was a month and a half ago.  And now I feel like I am healing.  Not just feeling better but healing and getting better. 

I can shower, for the first time in nearly 10 years without having to sit down and “take a break” and I don’t feel exhausted afterwards to the point where I need to nap.  I have energy again! My mood has improved.  I’m losing the weight that I need to.  My pain is under control (hence weaning myself off of the Nucynta.) My gut has healed. My ticks (mostly my shaking/tremors/twitching) is starting to get better on its own.  My OCD is more manageable.  I’m laughing again.  My good days are far outweighing my bad days.  I finally feel like I am making progress again. 

I’m still at a loss as to what to do with my antibiotics.  I stayed on the supplements but decided to do at least one round of dosing to see if I noticed any difference.  Other than upsetting my stomach and making me sleepy on dosing days, I haven’t seen any difference on antibiotics versus off of them.  So I’m still struggling with what to do. 

Going off of antibiotics all together is scary to me.  They saved my life and without them I would have been dead and gone 3 years ago.  But the results I’m seeing with the new regimen I’m on is undeniable and I want to continue to see how it goes.  I’ve talked to many others who are on the supplements and have had amazing success that goes above what I’ve already experienced (they have been on the supplements longer than I have too.).

As of now my plan is to stay with what I’m doing.  I’m going to talk to my LLMD about putting me on maintenance medications, which is antibiotics only 3 days a month.  That’s what I’ve been striving for for years now.  Maintenance.  Remission.  I finally feel like that’s possible.  Not only do I feel like my Lyme is getting better but so is my Babesia and Bartonella.  I feel like a new person. Don’t get me wrong.  I still have bad days.  After all, I’m still sick and as of now with the medical community not having a cure, I will remain sick for the rest of my life.  I was told when I began treatment to strive to be 80% of what I once was.  I’ve been running at 40-50% percent for years.  Right now I think 80% or higher is possible as long as I keep doing what I’ve been doing and I haven’t even been able to dream that high since I first started treatment and had no idea what I was in for. 

I’m still in the hot, humid waiting room.  I’m starting to get a little sick to my stomach again and I can feel the effects of the weather starting to take its toll on my body.  But I’m sipping on my “pink drink” and still feeling better than I have on any previous dosing cycle. 

Its the little things in life that surprise you.  Just when you think you’re at the end of your rope someone/something ties a knot at the end and helps hoist you back up.  I’m not saying I’ve found the “cure” for me, but I am saying that what I’m doing know is working and so I’m staying with it.  I’ve got a lot coming up with my own wedding that I need to be healthy for. 

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Crawling Out

I haven’t written in a while.  I just couldn’t sit down and focus and frankly, I just didn’t care about life for a while.  I had nothing to write.  My days consisted of laying in bed, watching Netflix, over eating and feeling like the world was ending.  I was in a hole…a deep dark vortex that was devouring my soul.  I was in one of the worst depressions of my life. I couldn’t get motivated to do anything.  I wasn’t even sure I wanted to get better.  What was the point?! I would still be sick and I would still be in treatment.  It seemed never ending.

I’m still not sure how I got out of my depression.  Maybe it was my fiancé begging and pleading with me to keep fighting.  Maybe it was the blue skies outside my window calling to me.  Maybe it was having to take the dog out.  Maybe it was just luck.

But yesterday I realized, when I forced myself to get out of bed, that I was starting to crawl out of my hole.  I did a little weeding, a little power washing (which completely relaxes me and takes me to a happy place), a little laundry.  I did all that despite the fact that my knees were swollen and hurting and my back was killing me, barely allowing me to stand.  I genuinely needed a nap from exhaustion.  I didn’t just want to sleep my life away for a change.

I asked for my doctor to hit me hard with dosing.  I didn’t know how hard it would be and though I was physically prepared for how hard it could be, I was no where close to how bad it would be mentally,  I still have one more cycle left which starts Monday and for the first time I’m actually scared to start dosing.  Just as  I have started to emerge, I’m going to be dragged down into the hole again.  I’m just hoping I’m far enough out to not hit a new all time low. 

Being sick sucks.  What was supposed to take 10-18 months is now entering year 4.  I’ve has so many setbacks and complications that its hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel and know its not a train.  I’m trying not to be frustrated, I’m trying to be compliant and I’m doing my best to keep fighting.  That’s what you have to do when you have a chronic illness, never give up the fight. Most people will never understand that every single day, even the good days, are a battle…me against my mind and body and the disease.  In my darkest hours I need to remember this. Maybe this weekend I’ll take post it notes and place them throughout the house saying “KEEP FIGHTING!” so that when the depression creeps back in during dosing I’ll be my own reminder this time. 

I have always been a fighter. I’ve gone through all of this with my head held high and fought.  This latest protocol for dosing has changed that.  The goal is to attack the Babesia, Bartonella and Lyme as hard as they can and hopefully knock out (or almost out) the co infections.  Most of what’s left is imbedded in my brain which causes the deep depression and makes me completely unpredictable and often angry, unable to drive for periods of time because I’m disoriented and confused and so helpless I can barely take care of myself and the most menial tasks.  I feel like a small child in an adult’s body with adult problems.  I feel overwhelmed.  I can’t keep track of my finances. I can’t hold together a household.  I’m having difficulty hand writing things.  My tremors are back and now my upper body is as bad as my lower body.  I feel like I’m taking a giant step backwards and 2 baby steps forward.

I know this is what I asked for. This was my own doing.  As they say be careful what you wish for because you just might get it. Am I regretting my decision? I really don’t know.  I’m waiting to make my decision until the end of last cycle in this protocol.  If I come out on top then I win, if I fall backwards and start regressing even more then it proved to be too much for my body and brain. Either way I’ll continue to press on.

My biggest concern now is that I’m becoming immune to certain antibiotics, Ceftin in particular. It has been incorporated into the last several protocols.  If I’m becoming immune to the antibiotics that are supposed to save my life what am I to do? If I leave things untreated I’ll just get sicker and sicker again.  If I continue with them, I run the risk of becoming immune to more and more antibiotics and then Heaven forbid I need antibiotics for an infection other than Lyme.

I’m going to talk to my doctor after this last round of the protocol.  I’m going to see if I can take a few months with a minimal protocol and give my body a chance to heal a bit before I slam it hard again.  Maybe I just need time to heal emotionally more than physically.   I have so much going on in life that I need to relax and regain balance in my life to get some control back.  But I need my brain to be working to do that.  So I’ll muddle through the next 2 weeks and see how things go from there.  One foot in front of the other, one day at at a time.  I’m crawling out of the hole and the darkness.

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Babesia Blues

I’ve been down in a dark hole for weeks now.  I just finished four months of Babesia treatment.  Four long, rough months.  While I haven’t been physically herxing the mental herxing has been nearly unbearable.  I’ve been all over the place emotionally.  Mostly I am deeply depressed.  Barely able to get out of bed.  If I do, I usually end up just moving from my bed to one of the couches.Even with a new puppy (well she’s actually 3 years old but she’s still my “puppy” considering at 49 lbs she’s half the size of my old dog) I’ve been unable to pull myself out of my own shit and get my life back together.

I feel stuck with my treatment.  When I first started nearly 3 years ago, I was so physically ill I didn’t know how I’d ever survive it.  But despite feeling sick, I knew treatment must be working or else I wouldn’t feel so bad.  Then I started to get better.  I was making noticeable progress.  Even with so many set backs I felt like I was getting better.  Now I just feel stuck.  I’m beginning to wonder it this is as good as its going to get, but I don’t know how I would learn to live with this being my new normal.

After being evaluated by a neurologist (MRIs of the brain and full spine) I received a clean bill of health (at least in that aspect) and was told that ever increasing shaking was a “tic” and that I should see a psychiatrist, which I still haven’t decided if I’m going to do.  (A tic from a tick, you have to see the irony in that.) . I’ve had bad experiences with psychiatrists in the past and I’m afraid they’ll take one look at my medication list and tell me that I’m overmedicated or worse want to put me on even more meds.  Finding a Lyme literate psychiatrist seems like an even more daunting task.  I’m afraid they’ll tell me there’s no such thing as chronic Lyme or my coinfections and that everything is all in my head which will set my Irish temper off.

The shaking is so bad lately.  It has moved from mostly in my legs to full body.  It is so depressing to even go out in public anymore.  I guess if I was older and shook people might write it off as Parkinson’s but since I’m not I get looks of disgust.  It almost looks like I’m going through alcohol withdrawal and I often find myself wondering if that’s what people are thinking when they look at me.  When I get that thought in my head I try to knock it out as quickly as possible because then I want to burst out into tears.  There’s a lot of “talking” to myself reassuring myself that I can’t help it and that its not my fault. I try to joke about the shaking but the truth is that it hurts.  My fiancee tries to understand but he just doesn’t get it.  I just can’t find it funny anymore.  Maybe that’s my depression getting the better of me.

Living with me is becoming increasingly difficult because I am unable to control my emotions anymore.  I never know who I’m going to be or how I’m going to feel anymore.  I am completely emotionally unstable.  I don’t take pleasure in anything I used to and I don’t know how to make it stop.  I feel like I have no purpose anymore.  My fiancee has taken over the chores I used to do to make life easier for me.  I fully appreciate all that he has done for me and continues to do for me.

I have a wedding to plan for which I should be thrilled about and I can barely get myself to do anything about it.  I know what I should be doing and I can’t get anything together.  I can’t focus.  I can’t have conversations I need to have regarding it. I’m trying my best but nothing seems to be coming together and I feel like there’s nothing I can do about it.

I feel like I’m killing time until I see my LLMD again but that’s still two and half weeks away.  I’m hoping for good news from them.  Reassurance that what I’m going through is normal and that things will get better.  But there’s another part of me that’s terrified of hearing “this is it” and its time for maintenance medications for the rest of my life.   I think that would crush me at this point and I definitely wouldn’t be able to get out of bed anymore.  I am also beginning to wonder if my system has become immune to the antibiotics that I’ve been on.  I’ve done so much damage to my body in my quest to get better, I don’t know if I’ll ever recover.  Its not like I had a choice though, the Lyme and coinfections were killing me and if I wouldn’t have treated them, my mom would have buried yet another child.  What else could I have done?!

Maybe if I had more Lymie friends it would help.  Someone who would understand what is going on with me and would have more advice to help. I’m terrible about reaching out to new people.  Its still so hard for me to admit that I can’t handle things, even with those closest to me let alone to people I barely know.  I go to a Lyme support group and for 2 hours once a month I feel somewhat understood but I also feel ignorant about my own disease and how to handle it.  Maybe if I had the money to spend for different treatments but I can barely afford my own doctor and medication to even try to spend more out of pocket that’s not covered by insurance.  I pay $330 a month for insurance that I don’t even get to use because my disease is controversial and isn’t covered by insurance.  What’s the point?!  I’m having to wean myself off my pain medication (which was working and keeping the pain under control) because it now costs me $200 a month.

I’m guessing that all this depression and being trapped inside my own mind is my recovering and/or a side effect from the Babesia treatment.  No Mepron this time so I can’t blame it on that.  I don’t know what I’m doing or where I’m going or how I’m going to feel tomorrow, let alone in a couple of weeks.  I’m just trying to put one foot in front of the other and get through every days that passes.

 

 

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